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O’er the Hump We’ll Go
June 25, 2009, 7:20 am
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I think I’m a pretty good person. Among other things, I try to treat people with kindness and respect and generally expect the best out of people, until they repeatedly prove me wrong; admittedly, I can be a bit selfish, immaturely negligent of basic tasks, self-absorbed, judgmental, prideful…I’d go on but this list is making me feel way too good about myself…Point is, I should go to heaven, cause I’m pretty much mostly a good and decent person who abides by the majority of ethical rules and laws that our society has established, amended, adjusted, re-worded and re-established. And I don’t think my bad is really thAt bad.

However, the thing is…God is good. (1 John 1:5) Sinless. I’ve heard sin described as, “Missing the Mark”. If God is the mark, then there is no person here that can say they’ve reached it.

God just IS good. I’m a size 8 1/2 shoe on an ideal day. These are both things that won’t change just because we will them to.

Sin is pretty much where God is NOT. But, it’d be a load off my back if he’d just resign himself to living with my sin for all eternity. But, then again…He doesn’t have to…he’s kinda God, and I’m kinda not. Which is why with all my wonderfulness, with all the goodness that I do have, I can in no way earn my way into heaven. That’s good news, or rather, that leads to the good news that we hear so much about.

I don’t have to earn my way. I’m free to be a decent, sinful person trying to live up to standards I’ve placed on myself or that Oprah and Dr. Phil promote. I’m free to seek my own pathways to God and heaven.

On the other hand, I’m free to choose to accept the fact that not one of us can rid ourselves of sin and earn a place in heaven (even if it’s just the dusty corner of heaven behind the soup cans).

I mean, even Mother Theresa sinned, folks. (1 Samuel 1:2, Romans 3:12) You didn’t know? All of which would be a sad realization unless there is a God who is better than all of us put together and yet sees us individually and loves us unconditionally

Jesus was a man that existed, lived thirty-three years and the last three years of his life preached a word that pretty much shocked the mainstream way of thinking at the time…and now. His words are echoed, amended, adjusted, re-worded and repeated by our favorite gurus (pick up a Bible and compare). This man who claimed to be the son of God (Luke 22:70), said he was one with God (John 10:30) and even utilized God’s given name (John 8:58, Exodus 3:14). This man openly welcomed those that others condemned, forgiving sins and telling them to “go and sin no more” (John 8:11). Who talked about forgiving your enemies and even going out of your way for them (do what?!!) (Matthew 5:39-41).

This man vehemently weeped at the funeral of a friend he knew he’d be resurrecting (John 11:33-43). This man tossed tables in the synagogue in indignation (Mark 11:15-17).

This man seems crazy!

And, yet he healed, not killed. He ran from his pursuers, and yet spoke truth in the face of those who openly laughed at him and questioned his sanity (John 8:48-52). He did a lot of stuff that most of us would be way to self-conscious to do. He changed the world.

And, STILL, without raising a sword even in his own defense he allowed himself to be taken, tortured, murdered in a completely public and gruesomely humiliating form. That kinda disintigrates the excuse that he just doesn’t understand what we’re going through.

If I believed he was a man incapable of miracles and such then this is the end to his story…and to mine. I’m on on my own, then, it seems, with maybe a God above that watches me with sheer amusement as I blindly fumble around.

But, for me, it’s just the beginning.

If I confess with my mouth that Jesus Christ is my Lord and Savior, and believe in my heart that he was raised from the dead, I will be saved. (Romans 10:9; Acts 4:12) Saved from being some leaf in the wind, saved from being my own God, saved from hell and eternal unpeaceful death. (Did I mention that I left the sugar-coating in the kitchen?)

I confess that Jesus Christ is God and that the reward he was able to earn for living a sinless life is now mY reward in exchange for the horrifying one that I have earned. I confess that God’s love for me extends even that far that he would go to such extreme extents for me. And, I believe that God is God, and able to do and has, indeed, willingly done all of these things.

The way it makes sense to me, (and if anyone has other interpretations, please let me know!)…The way it makes sense to me is that Jesus Christ is the lense through which God sees those that love him.

But, when we try to approach God through the backdoor or through some other direction, God still loves us to pieces, but that love alone does not change the fact that we approach him with our goodness, aNd with sin, aNd with our decision to come at him the way wE deem fit. (John 14:6) And, when we stand before Him, all our mess is out in the ugly open, with nothing to shield it. I’ve chosen hell, then. Chosen to be where God is absolutely not. Hell is an ugly word. But, sin is an unfathomably ugly thing.

That said, I still sin occassionally (only daily). Among other things which I will not name I can still be judgemental and choose to share what’s in my heart with less tact and compassion than that situation warrants. But, I am also learning patience, compassion and to look outward more and more. I’m learning the value of healthy relationships and their priority. I’m actually learning to take care of some things which I had previously left for others to do. And, I’m still learning…oy.

Though a sinner, I am also a daughter of God who wants what He wants. And, I know that that other stuff is not what he wants. I know that ‘cuz he’s inspired a Bible which he purposely put here showing the good, bad, ugly and beautiful, stories that show his character…by comparing his character to what comes naturally to us.

I can’t change on my own, but once I truly decided to take Him up on his offer God poured His Spirit into me to help me along. That must sound very mystical and fantastic given the logic and knowledge gained from thousands of years of human experience… experience yielding knowledge that is consistently amended, adjusted, re-worded, reconsidered and refuted.

God is love (1 John 4:16). He’s held that title for–oh my gosh, like, forever. And, “love” is the only way I can describe God’s Holy Spirit. Somehow, God managed to share some of His Holy Spirit with me, sharing pure, undefiled love (Romans 5:5). That love compels me to love him back.

It compels me to let him lead me into the life and the lessons that he knows is best for me as an individual; (even though it may not necessarily be what is expected for me, nor compare to others’ experiences.) That love can compel us beyond our own self-consciousness, if we let it.

That love can change our world, if we let it.. If we allow ourselves the freedom to seek out who he created us to be.

Then our experiences, our hurts, our joys, our successes, our struggles, and the sin that we sincerely repent of can actually be used to change this world, or at least SOMEbody’s world for the better.

Why would I want to do that? Cuz God loves you, silly!! And, how can I honestly claim to love God, because he loves me…and then not have compassion for the love of his life…you.

The key to that is love, which is what I, too, am still being taught. Oy! oh! Oy! But, what it comes down to is that God knows the plans he has for each one of us, plans for good and not for harm. But plans for future and, for a hope. (Jeremiah 29:11)

=)

I’m going off of what I’ve learned from the Bible that has been reinforced in my own life. These are all the Bible verses I’m working off of: (1 John 1:5;1 Samuel 1:2, Romans 3:12; Luke 22:70, John 10:30, John 8:58, Exodus 3:14, John 8:11, Matthew 5:39-41, John 11:33-43, John 8:48-52;Romans 10:9, Acts 4:12; John 14:6; 1 John 4:16; Romans 5:5; Jeremiah 29:11)

So, I felt compelled to write this, and although it’s not the standard kind of thing for me (I’m more of a journalistic, “deep thoughts by Jack Handy” kind of writer), I’m very glad I did do it. I don’t have all the answers, so if someone has questions, just know that I’m more than happy to gain clarification for myself by asking and researching questions I have absolutely no real clue about.

God bless ya’ll!

Q.



Forgiveness can be a process, but at least it’s a start.
…I called my daddy on a Sunday.

I haven’t talked to my father in, oh, five years, at least? And, I had no intention of starting. Unfortunately, my ultimate FATHER had different plans.

I won’t go into why we stopped communicating, I will say that it was an emotional dam that had built up over years, only to be broken by a straw of considerable size placed on a very weak camel’s back. And, I was just through. That’s all, folks.

Since I’ve returned home the Lord through his Holy Spirit has addressed a few of my schewed perspectives. But, the last thing I wanted to address were those particular emotions associated with the (unfortunately all-too-common) disfunctional relationshionship my dad and I share/d…and all that my hurt feelings wrought on me and on others; that emotional mess was my “Goliath.” And I was just fine sweeping that giant under the rug.

But, I called him a couple days ago…yup.

At first, I dialed and was thrilled to get the voicemail…of a stranger? I’d had to ask a family member for his number and had apparently entered the wrong number into my phone!

It took another half hour, at least, to finally press “send” and let the call go through to the correct group of digits.

What got me to that point is not that I’m so obedient. If that was the case, I would have done this when God had prompted me four-six weeks ago.

But, yes, part of my motivation was knowing that I can’t knowingly be partially obedient to God and expect him to be able to lead me to the most fruitful life that he’s planned for me. This is something I am now -finally- learning. His plan is better than mine, but I’m also clueless in regards to what it takes to bring it to life. Me trying to find my own way around would be like trying to fly a plane for the first time and only following 99% of what the instructor is telling me. Then I wonder why we ended up at a whole other airport.

Anywho, regarding the title of this little entry, the main thing that finally compelled me forward is the fact that forgiveness can be a supernatural, instantanous thing; bbbuuuut it can also be a process. The Bible compels us that forgiveness most definitely shOuLd be accomplished, but it doesn’t dictate hOw it must be accomplished… That revelation was such a relief for me.

For me, it makes sense…it’s been a process allowing God to make inward changes (and still is…oy!) It’s been a process learning how to recognize and play my part in the development of a relationship that’s loving, considerate, genuine and is committed to promoting the best interests of both parties. It’s been a process just learning some new skills. I’m not experiencing that supernatural forgiveness, but that’s okay. I don’t have to lie or pretend because that seems more honorable, somehow; to do so would actually be unfair and would set us up for failure. But God is meeting me where I’m at.

But seeing this newly developing relationship honestly allows me to adjust to the truth of what I’m getting into. At least then I can more sincerely commit to seeing this through. And, I recognize that this does require a serious commitment.

So, I’m beginning tHIs process. I started it with the intention to see it through, trusting that God can and will be there to guide my steps, my words, my actions if I rely on him, wholly.

Just like budging a boulder out of its place, starting was the hardest part, you know? Following that, we had some momentum and ended up with a good convo, my dad and I.

For dad’s part, he was really open and respected where I was coming from; but to be fair, that’s a characteristic that’s been consistent for him concerning our talks. Good stuff.

Everything’s not resolved, but there is a sense of a burden lifting…and I know now to expect to fight and stand (and grit my teeth) through challenges posed by both of us along this journey. But, I also expect some unexpected highs benefiting us both. And, actually, that one conversation yielded one very needed and timely tidbit re: my business…so….what do you know?

So, yeah. I felt led to begin making regular weekly calls to him. I’m sure we will meet up at some point, too. But, for now, I’m at the calling stage. That’s where I’m at. But, at least it’s a start.

Keep me in your prayers if you remember, pls.

Q.



What God Can Do.
May 21, 2008, 5:03 pm
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When we ask what God can do, we usually think of huge miracles.  After all, He created heaven and earth.  But, what does that mean to us?  We weren’t even there when it happened.  So, what we really want to know is, “What God can do…for me.”  Let’s take for granted that He is all-knowing, all-powerful and that He is love.  How does that apply today?  To me?  To you?

First, let’s cover the list of what God cannot do.  Get comfortable:

1. God cannot be sinful.
“God is light; in him there is no darkness at all.” 1 John 1:5 
A good analogy is that of heat and cold.  The definition of cold is a) Marked by deficient heat; b) Being at a temperature that is less than what is required.  The feeling we label as “cold” is actually our sensing a lack of heat.  Just as sin is a manifestation of the lack of God’s presence.  Heat can’t be cold.  Light can’t be dark.  God can’t be sin.  But, He can allow sin to move in whatever way He plans: “The LORD works out everything for his own ends— even the wicked for a day of disaster.” Proverbs 16:4

That’s it!  Beyond that, it’s “game on!”  So, now that we know God can do all things except sin, we take the limits off of what He can do in our very own personal lives. 

I may live a relatively decent life; steady job, nice home, good friends and tolerable family.  But, what I want out of life is to live with few regrets.  I want to live!—not just survive.  I want to make a difference in people’s lives.  And, even if I really don’t want that, I would like to reach my greatest potential as a human being, to see the absolute best me come to life.

This is what God can do.  And, you don’t even have to wait until next lifetime to live the best time of your life.  No matter your socio-economic status, your star-power, your obstacles or preconceived notions about yourself (or that others have about you), God has a plan for the life you are living right now.  It’s a life filled with purpose, with hope.  A future.* He’s got gifts He’s given you that He wants to stir up and use properly; and He’s even got some talents in store for you that you’re not even aware of yet.

For instance, I found out a few months ago that I am a songwriter.  I have no musical background, but so far I have three pretty amazing compositions under my belt and another on its way.**  This isn’t me bragging on me, but on the all-knowing, all-powerful and ever-loving Lord, Jesus Christ.  I’m sharing only one example of a personal trait that this ex-administrative assistant probably would have never discovered.  It’s a pursuit that’s come through building a relationship with the God in heaven who knows me better than I know myself.

What God can do is more than we can orchestrate for ourselves.  His offer is more satisfying than comfort, money, power or influence; He offers an opportunity to find out who you were really made to be, and live the life for which you were designed.  But, as always, the choice is yours.

*“’For I know the plans I have for you,’ declares the LORD, ‘plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.’” Jeremiah 29:11

** find samples at http://libraryofintelligentdesigninc.blogspot.com/



Non Christian’s Chance in Heaven
April 21, 2008, 7:54 pm
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Non Christians’ chance in Heaven; a snowball’s chance in hell.

 

If I knew, for certain, that following doctor’s orders would avert the negative outcome of my life-threatening disease, how would I respond?

 

“Well, doc, that prescription doesn’t sync with my current lifestyle.  What are my other options?”

 

Hmm…probably not.  Instead, I’m gonna take that horse-sized pill three times a day ‘til I die rosy cheeked at the unnatural age of 156.

 

Well, the bad news is that not one of us is capable of slaying every underlying fear, unacknowledged addiction and accepted/harmful family legacy that keeps us from being the absolute best person we can be.  All that “weakness” is called sin and it’s a crippling disease that holds us back.  And, you have the right to be mad at it! Yeah! Cause it’s the worst kind of fatal.  The for-sure-you-ain’t-getting-no-second-chance-so-you-best-address-it-now kind of fatal.  We all share it; whether believer, non-believer or I-don’t-know-what-I-am-so-I-call-myself-a-Christian believer.

 

So, it’s a good thing we’ve been given exclusive access to the top Physician!  His credentials? Oh, He raises people from the dead…sans stethoscope and “STATs!”  And, if you believe in a heaven where He reigns, why wouldn’t you believe His direction in getting there?  Or—to get back on metaphorical track—why would you try to guess your way to a happy ending by concocting your own remedy?

 

And, if you don’t have an inkling of hope in the Christian idea of God’s grace and a rich heavenly home, then why are you reading this article?

 

Jesus Christ wasn’t shy about the truth, because He knew that, “The words that I say to you I do not speak on My own initiative, but the Father abiding in Me does His works.” John 14:10.  Nor was He hesitant to reveal the diagnoses of death for Lazarus, the sin of adultery to the woman at the well (John 11:11-15; John 4:17-18 ) or the sin of pride of the Pharisees.

 

Now, was Jesus rubbing their faces in the dirt?  Was He giving them spiritual wedgies? He tells us in John 12:47 that that job has not been placed on His shoulders.  Judgment is Someone Else’s department (down the hall and to the right). 

 

He’s just here to give us the helping hand that we desperately need, if we only admit it.

 

Why didn’t Christ shy away from these truths?  Because He also held the cure.  “I came that you might have life, and might have it abundantly. (John 10:10)”  “I Am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father, but through Me.” (John 14:6).

 

Whether you adhere to the label of “Christian,” or not, unless you’ve given your life to Christ and relying on the gift of His death and the justification of His resurrection…well, you’re not following the doctor’s prescription.  Simply stated, if you confess with your mouth Jesus as Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved.  See Romans 10:9 for the dosage and directions (and it’s not even in fine print).

 

The right answers are not always going to conform to our schedules, our priorities, to our likes and our dislikes.  But, since when has the truth been convenient for everyone?  The good news is that we don’t have to grope around for our own path to fulfillment; or be our own gods, bearing every consequence and outcome on these two puny shoulders.

 

Nor do we have to live condemned lives as a sign of our piety as is practiced even in non-Christian belief systems.  Upon accepting Christ’s gift, we rely on the fact that our struggles lead to affective and personally fulfilling lives, that through genuine repentance our sins are forgiven and our approach to the world around us forever changed for our and others’ good.  And when this vibrant life ends, we get the ultimate high…a place prepared in heaven by a friend who we’ve known, and who knows us individually, personally and completely. (John 15:11, John 14:2-3,20)

 

- Quo Elbert 

for more commentary on this subject find this and other articles on Helium.com.



Is Christianity Dying?

Yes.  Or, at least the label of “Christian” is beginning to peel, crack and fade, revealing something of true worth beneath.

The Christian faith is not dying, but is renewed in the hope of recalling what the Good News really is…that God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son that none should perish but have everlasting life.  That Jesus came to give us life, and that more abundantly.  That we all fall short of the glory of God, but we are saved by grace.  And, the nuclear reaction of that realization is clear in the eyes of young and old, alike…Today!  Just take a look at the many active (as in, getting off the pews and into the streets) churches and youth groups that have bloomed around the world. 

The contemporary idea of “Christianity” is flailing; a life that is (a) dull, judgmental or self-condemning.  Or (b) a life that is contrary to the Word because we weren’t shown a genuine example of what a relationship with Christ looks like; or don’t feel the Word is relevant to our life, today.

There seems to be movement happening in the spirits of those who seek to know God, who are filled with the love of Jesus Christ and desire to see the world through the lenses of the Holy Spirit.  An understanding that we are not saved by good deeds or by being a “good person,” but we are saved by faith (Rom. 3:28); that God did not put the burden of judgment on our shoulders but the opportunity to introduce others to the uniquely fulfilling life that God has planned for them (John 12:47); that there is truly such a thing as power through Jesus Christ to bind and break chains of addictions from drugs and sexual perversion, jealousy, lying and insecurity (1 Cor. 10:13); that He is the God that directs us, not arbitrarily, but for a greater purpose and with a plan better informed than our own (Jer. 29:11); that our souls, our every deed and thought lay completely naked before Him (Psalm 139:13-16), and still He loves us more completely, unabashedly and more personally than we can even hope to display ourselves (Heb. 2:6-8).

There’s a rebirth happening.  A realization that we don’t have to be our own gods.  That the big world around us and its problems are not insurmountable.  It is an acceptance that we need God for everything and that we can go to Him with our smallest cares…because He is attentive to the details (Luke 12:7).  In admitting our lack of power, we can finally allow ourselves to rest in His strength for everything.  Once we stop trying to tap into our own limited capabilities, we free ourselves to draw strength from an unending Source; and buoyed by His love we are able to do all things through Christ (Rom. 8:37).

Today, Christian’s who have a relationship with Christ know themselves to be believers.  To be friends and lovers of God.  To be sons and daughters.  To be dependents.  To be in awe.  It is this identity that shapes one’s approach to the people around us, the situations that are beyond our control; and our approach to life.

Yes, Virginia. Christianity is dying…dying to know God. (1 John 3:18 )

- Quo Elbert 

for more commentary on this subject find this and other articles on Helium.com.




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